Hate this part - Instead of the usual hard sell- , let me put it another way. If you are looking for someone who is caring without being possessive; affectionate but not smothering; intelligent but not boring; sensible but not stuffy; fun-loving without being brash; flexible to the point of staying in 5* luxury one week and camping in a muddy field the next- MAYBE you could get in touch? If you like the sound of someone who has moved on from the Friday/ Saturday night club scene and who prefers the finer things- someone who won