First off, Im Scottish (Just a warning hehe - fiery), live in farnborough hants - good science parks here! Im not shy, at all, ever, an Ill be the first to smile at you across a crowded room if you catch my eye. Honest (to a fault, I need a filter between my brain and my mouth!! and i have the broken nose and cracked jaw to prove it) reliable, confident and always on time. Ive had a lot of downs in my life, boo hoo, but I'm a much stronger (im a survivour) and better person for those experiences, I'm happy! I like laughing and joking around (big kid at times) and ill no doubt make you laugh too-probably at me!! I laugh at me even when alone, (does that mean im sick?) Im still up for wild nights out which these days last about an hour, or nights in-cuddled up on the sofa with you and a good movie which can last for weeks (ooo)! I can talk about almost anything to anybody and wouldn't embarrass you no matter what the social occasion. I like all the usual stuff, eating out, going out with friends, clubs-maybe!? though i hate the cattle markets, well ok then!!, movies, music - etc. although my main reason for being here is to meet someone special, I am still very open to making new friends, so don't be shy get in touch, doesn't mean we are married ! hehe Just a few last thingies, if you don't have a photo please don't mail THAT MEANS DONT _ DO NOT, K!!, had too many nutters n bunny-boilers already! AND if you recently separated less then 6mnths take more time i don't want our first date to be taken over by conversation about your eXX, house split, courts, his new car n his new girlfriend etc coz ill get up and leave. If you smoke and drink thats fine, If your a complete drunk its not. For women over 45 who post nude pics, there are SPECIAL places for that type of ART, mostly institutional!!!! Girls for all the male ...ive seen on here, macho, testonerised, over-ego crap i apologise on the behalf of the rest of the human race for the majority of the male population, they realy are just w*****s and we are not all like that! Thanx, lots of luv Alan xxx P.S. Hey U! If I should mail you please at the very least reply - WITH SOMETHING!! LOL you see us mere mortals, - men lol rely on responses and even a negative one is still a response, an it wont break your nails to type NO! (yes, you know who ya are) its just bloody ignorance not to respond, that is of course unless you cant read!? In which case your forgiven and ive just wasted my time writing this! INIT!!! If we ever got to date having swept you off your feet with my charm and charisma? On the first date id try and impress you with how much beer i can drink and how much food i can get on my NEW football shirt and on you - whilst talking! (caveman thing)Id then impress you by pulling out pics of the car "I am Going to buy" and accidentally droping a pic of my butt (not really me/brad pitts) on the table, for the most part id probably talk a lot of BS, tell a lot of lies, try an act cool and make a complete idiot of myself (. Finally if all else fails ill show you my scars, one from an encounter with a great white shark, one from vietnam, and one from a crocodile, i wrestled to death, all fatal, oh and not forgetting the ones i got from fighting off 7 men! but most of my scars are on my knuckles from dragging them around pubs, hahahaha - by that time id be completely pissed and talking to your breasts - well, isnt this how men are supposed to act??? and what is a carlsberg man anyway?? LOL Actually I wouldnt do any of that, im just me, a simple ordinary human being that respects myself first so i can respect others! so these days i try to Live each day as if it was my last and love each day as if it was my first!? - hard at times but if i can actuaully get out of bed every morning im usually okay.My only regret is that Of all the things iv lost, i miss my mind the most.