Just to let you know a little about myself.I'm of slightly tanned complection,5,11",short dark brown hair,dark brown eyes,and of average build.I'm quite healthy and athletic because i work for Royal Mail as a driver/postman so i have to be fairly fit!I used to race mountain bikes for a bike manufacturer so my fitness level is good but not as good as it used to be cos its been a few years! I also gave up smoking recently,god its hard but i just remember that i have so much more to live for. I have a little girl of 2 and a half and shes the best thing that has happened to my life so far.I see her every other weekend as she lives with her mother but that relationship is over and has been for at least a year. I'm fun loving,i'm not rich but generous what i can give to a relationship in every aspect.I do love my cuddles (and i've been told i give great ones!!),love and attention and would be able to return that to the right woman,I do miss that sort of intimacy and companionship.I enjoy eating out,pubs,theatre,cinema etc, but really enjoy cuddling on the sofa watching a movie.I love music,i think i would be lost without it and love most types and artists. I'm not a wimp or a softy but i am a romantic man and I'm very pasionate in many ways and about many things.It seems to me that most women aren't looking for men like me any more,however i would liked to be proved wrong on that one!! I'm looking for someone who likes a lot of fuss and attention but who isnt afraid of their own company.Someone who can show me what I've been missing for what seems like years,companionship,love,care,and attention.I'm looking for a woman who can appreciate not only the big things that i do for them but the small things too,the finer details of life.I feel life and love is not measured in the breath we take,but the things that take our breath away. I'm definatly looking for love,friendship,companionship,honesty,and i know this will happen with time(except for the honesty which should happen from day one!!))but I'm sick of having my heart used and abused.I'm missing my soul mate.