Ok. How hard is it to find somebody genuine? somebody who is not faking? (hoping I do not sound too fed up!) I know I do not.. so here we go, I am a divorced, Japanese born 42 year old with two kids, who live with their dad. I keep myself amused with racket sports, gymming, drink-outs, drink-ins, eating-outs, opera etc. Sorry, no vegetarians or anybody with bad table manners (cannot share a table with somebody who keeps licking a knife! ugh) I am looking for somebody with GSOH (to keep me smiling),patience (if youve been shopping with your ex./your mum/your sister, you should know patience is an essential virtue) and a confident and charming conversational skills in any social scenes (cannot face my friends with a social misfit next to me...) oh and this is kind of important... if walking on the street together, I naturally expect you to take the road side, you know that kind of thing?? Yes, I could be demanding sometimes. but then which girl is not? How about you? or have I said too much already? nonetheless, I hope you will be Mr. special for me. Looking forward to hearing from you, Kayo