Eternally optimistic, in search of that certain someone that has so far evaded me Just one question. Where have all the tall men gone? How's a girl supposed to wear her heels anymore!; OP if you think you have the qualities. Bring them to the table and let's discuss.; o) I like all the ususal things in life, its OK to do them on your own but so much nicer to have someone to do them with. To make memories with. So what am I ultimately looking for? Three main things, Any one of them would be nice, any two would be good, but all three would be fantastic. But does all three exist? Not so sure myself but hope someone can prove me wrong. Are you that person? 1. Friend Someone that I can laugh with. Go for walks in the rain. Cook or burn Sunday lunch together. Sit and read the Sunday papers in bed and chat about the news. Watch TV. Go to the pub, cinema, seaside etc. 2. Lover Go to sleep with and wake up with a cuddle. A kiss when you walk in the door, as that is the first thing that you think of. Being tactile and that does not mean groping at any oppurtunity lol. 3. Soulmate The hard one to find. Someone that knows when you're down and gives you that cuddle. But much more than that. I think you know what I mean, be there for you 24/7 in good times and bad times.