not your average 48 year old i dont look it and certainly dont act it im friendly happy smart and tactile a free spirit and have a job career my own house and the friends to go with it so wheres the man.im looking for a man who is in the same position as me with his own house and good job ,and no mummies boys please ,if you cant look after yourself then i cant take you on ,grown ups only lol on here maybe well i give it a go its amasing how many people dont read the profile and then message you ,what i say in the profile is about who im looking for and what im like .... why why would people put old pics on ,why do you look nohtin like ya pic when we meet ...its wasting peoples time ,would u say lol