Young at heart (some say childish!), 39 year old still trying to find 'the one', if there is such a thing? I've never been married and have no children and although it's occasionally at the back of my mind, it's never been a priority. Never say never though! My main interests are..... music and going to gigs (mainly Indie, Rock, Punk, Dance and Ska but listen to much more. All except RnB, Country and Western and Techno really!), I love films, am a keen amateur photographer and playing on my Wii. Still manage the occasional visit to town for a night out clubbing but tend to steer clear of the mainstream haunts. I have a love of animals and the countryside/beach, weekends away, holidays, days out, spending time with friends, cuddling up on the sofa, cooking, people watching, watching footie in the pub etc. I appreciate the simple things in life. I'm quite quiet (most of the time, but have been known to have my moments), can be shy to begin with, too honest for my own good, have been called 'deep' before (I just like to analyse stuff), but have a wicked/dry sense of humour. I'm looking for a partner in crime to share the good and bad times in life and enjoy lots of laughs together. Someone who's outgoing, with a good sense of humour, kind, fun, generous, loyal, protective etc would be great. I don't have a 'type' and looks aren't everything, but I do think that there has to be a mutual attraction and a spark! I PREFER MEN OF MY OWN AGE OR YOUNGER AND I AM NOT REALLY INTERESTED IN SOMEONE WHO HAS CHILDREN. I work 12 hour shifts so I find it difficult to meet new people, social life is a bit non existent at the mo. I tend to like my own space at times so understand if you're the same way, but I do enjoy a good old chat and a laugh with friends. I'm easy going and tend to go with the flow. Oh, and I know it shouldn't, but bad grammer and spelling kind of put me off........Not that I'm perfect of course! Lol.